Merry Christmas from Wade & Agents Boost
Wishing you and your loved ones a fun, memorable and relaxing Christmas Season.
Thank you for a great 2024.
Best wishes,
Wade
Wishing you and your loved ones a fun, memorable and relaxing Christmas Season.
Thank you for a great 2024.
Best wishes,
Wade
A gratitude list may feel like the last thing you want to do in 2024. While the feeling is understandable, even with the current challenges in the world, there are still things to be thankful for during this time. I know all these things may not apply to you. Still, I hope this list will inspire you to remember the things to be thankful for. Here are 101 things to be grateful for.
1. Sight. I know there are a lot of people in this world who are blind. Even if you are, there are still other things to be grateful for. Those of you who aren’t blind, even if you must wear glasses or contacts, you can be grateful that you can see. Even if everything you see in the world isn’t as pleasant sometimes, still be grateful for the pleasant things you can see, like the nice green colors of nature outside.
2. Hearing. Similarly, to sight, many people in this world are deaf. They’ll never be able to enjoy the sounds of music or hear the voice of someone they care about. Be grateful that you can listen to relaxing music when you feel stressed.
3. Smell. As small as this may seem, I’ve heard of people who’ve lost their sense of smell, and it completely changed their life. Have gratitude for still having your sense of smell.
4. Taste. When one loses their sense of taste, they lose their ability to enjoy all the flavors of food. We can be grateful for still being able to enjoy the taste of fruits, vegetables, and all the foods we enjoy in the world.
5. Walking. Being able to get around is more of a blessing than we realize sometimes. There are people who must use canes, crutches, and wheelchairs to move around. Be grateful for being able to walk on your own two feet with relatively little pain.
6. Lungs. If we don’t have any lung issues or must use any machines to breathe in oxygen, that’s something to be grateful for.
7. Hand movement. I must type a lot to make these articles on here. I’m grateful that I have hand movement that’s free of any arthritis. Whatever you use your hands for, be grateful you can still use them.
8. Teeth. Be grateful if you’ve not lost any of your teeth, and they’re not in any pain.
9. Neck movement. As someone who deals with neck pain from time to time, even I’m grateful that I can still move my neck from one side to the other. If you can as well, you can write that on your list.
10. Memory. As we get older, our memories may not be as good as they are now. Be grateful you can still remember the things that you want in your day.
11. Heart. There are people currently waiting for heart transplants in the hospital right now. We can be grateful that we have a working heart that still beats normally.
12.Bladder. Leaky bladders are an inconvenience that we can be grateful we don’t have to deal with.
13. Stomach. As someone who’s had stomach challenges, it’s something to be grateful for when your stomach isn’t in pain. Burning inside of it is no fun. I’m grateful for when my stomach doesn’t experience that, and that I’ve been able to improve it little by little.
14. Bones. I once saw a commercial with a little kid who was born with brittle bone disease. He’d broken his bones hundreds of times. There was also an inspirational speaker who had this disability but managed to live an extraordinary life. Not only we can be grateful for having healthy and strong bones, but we can be inspired to do more with the abilities that we’re lucky to have.
15. Overall health. My health hasn’t been the best in the most recent years of my life, and maybe yours hasn’t either. Nonetheless, no matter our health challenges, we’re still alive. We can be grateful for our overall health keeps us here. I’m grateful that my health is good for the most part.
16. Health insurance. I know not everyone reading this has health insurance. Those of you that do, be grateful your insurance helps to reduce your medical bills.
17. Meditation. There are many simple activities in life that can help improve our overall health. I’m grateful for meditation being one of those things that’s easy to do and helps us feel better.
18. Medicine. There have been many advancements in technology that have helped to heal many sicknesses that couldn’t be healed decades ago. Medicine is one of the top health things we can be grateful for in life, especially if you can afford it.
19. Doctors. In these times we’re living in, there are few people more deserving to be on this list than doctors. We can be grateful for all of them that dedicate their lives to making people feel well.
20. Exercise. It may not be the most fun thing to do for some of you, but be grateful if you’re physically able to exercise, and help keep yourself healthy.
21. Therapy. Mental health is just as important as physical health. We can be thankful that there are mental health professionals available to help us cope with the stress of the times.
22. Sickness. Yes, we can even be grateful for sickness. Going through it in a way makes us more appreciative when our health is good.
23. Fruits and vegetables. Some people are not in position to afford fruits, vegetables and other meals that keep us well. Be grateful you can enjoy the proper number of fruits and vegetables you need in your life.
24. Having money. While we may not have much in our wallet or our bank account, we can always be grateful we have some money to buy some things. There are a lot of people that don’t have any at all.
24. Earning money. You’ve probably seen how many people have had their jobs lost recently. If you’re still able to earn money for yourself, that’s a lot to be grateful for.
26. Little (or no) debt. It’d of course be nice not to have debt at all, but some people have 100’s of 1000’s of dollars in debt. If you’re one of the few who has low debt, it’s worth being grateful for.
27. Paid bills. Sometimes people reach a point where they can’t pay their bills for the month and their whole world is about to fall apart. It’s a blessing you can count if you can still pay your bills.
28. Shelter. Homelessness is an unfortunate crisis around the world. Be grateful if you stay in a home protected from the elements and able to live comfortably.
29. Food. I don’t have to tell you about starving people in the world. It’s sad and hopefully we can continue to improve it. Being able to have food on your table everyday can be in the top 10 of your thankful lists.
30. Clothing. It’s not just clothes we can be thankful for but being able to have clean ones through the luxury of our washing machines and dryers.
31. Clean water. Hearing about the water crisis in Flint a few years ago reminded me how lucky we are the water we drink is clean.
32. Clean air. China is one of the most heavily polluted areas in the world, with many people that end up developing respiratory issues. If you live in an area where the air around you are clean, it’s another thing to be grateful for.
33. Trees. Studies have proven being in nature is good for our overall wellbeing. Be grateful if you have lots of trees around where you live.
34. Sunshine. In some places it rains most of the time. Even if you live in a place like that, you can be very grateful the few times the sun comes out.
35. Animals. I find the sounds of the birds chirping and the movements of the squirrels to be peaceful. If you have these or other kinds of animals in your area, perhaps you can watch them for a moment. You might be thankful to just be able to see and hear nature in action.
36. Personality. You are who you are. There may be things about yourself you don’t like, but there are also things that you can appreciate. Whether it’s your intelligence or your kindness, find those things about yourself that make you thankful.
37. Childhood. Obviously not all of us had the best childhoods. Myself personally, I’d say mine was decent for the most part. However, your childhood was, find one or two memories in that make you feel nostalgic and grateful.
38. Knowledge. We have more access to knowledge than ever before. We can be thankful to be able to learn things that improve our understanding of the world and make us better people.
39. Family. The people that are there for you and help you out in life, whether they’re related to you or not, that’s the family you can be grateful for.
40. Someone special. When you think about it, it’s an incredibly rare experience to have someone special in your life. If you have that now, that can be near the top of your list.
41. Future. You might be thinking, If the future is looking bleak, why be grateful for it? The reason we can be grateful for it is because there’s always a possibility it can get better. I’ve lived long enough to see it in my own life and other people’s lives.
42. Experiencing romantic love. Unfortunately, there are people who live long lives without having that experience of romantic love. We may not know how we got lucky to enjoy it, but we can be grateful we have.
43. Soft bed. After a long day of making through another day, be glad that you have a nice soft bed to lie in and get some good sleep.
44. Waking up. As we all know, some people don’t wake up to see another day. Be grateful that you did and those that you care about did as well.
45. Making it to the end of the day. One of the things I always reminded myself during difficult days was to just make it to the end of the day. I was and still am grateful whenever I can do that.
46. Productivity. We all can be lazy sometimes. It’s great when we have days where we get most if not all the things we wanted to accomplish done If you accomplished that, you could add it to your thankful list for today.
47. Growth and perspective. I learned a lot in my 40s, and I’m still learning a lot in this next stage of my life. No matter what age, we can be thankful for growth and perspective that helps us to be calmer about the world we live in.
48. Travels. Traveling has many benefits to our health. We can not only be grateful for what it does for us now, but the memories it gives us to enjoy looking back on.
49. Creativity. Whether you can sing, write, draw, or dance, our creative passions give us an escape in life we can be thankful for.
50. Kindness. It may seem like there are meaner people in this world today, but there are still people that are kind. Be grateful for the kindness you receive, and the acts of kindness that still happen every single day.
51. Open-mindedness. It can be a frustrating thing in society when people aren’t more open to different ideas and viewpoints. Be grateful when you come across people who are open-minded and willing to change their mind.
52. Exciting sports game. It can be exciting sports game or some other kind of live event. While there haven’t been many of them lately, we can look back at some of the ones we enjoyed most and be grateful to enjoy them all over again.
53. Inspiring speeches. I sometimes like looking back at old speeches in history. They can be uplifting in times of uncertainty. We can be grateful for all the people who had the courage and confidence to give inspiring speeches.
54. The moment work is finished. It’s always a great feeling when you finish your work for the day. Be grateful when you reach that point in your day.
55. A slice of pizza. Pizza is one of my favorite foods. Whatever yours is, it’s something you can be thankful for when you’re enjoying it.
56. A bowl of ice cream. While I’m more of a cookies and brownies person, I enjoy a bowl of ice cream every now and then. We can appreciate when we get to enjoy our favorite dessert.
57. Making someone laugh. When you make someone laugh, you make them feel good for a moment in their day. When we make people feel good, we make ourselves feel good too. Be glad when you can do that.
58. The quiet of the nighttime. Some neighborhoods aren’t as quiet as others, but when your neighborhood is quiet, stop for a moment and appreciate the peace of the silence.
59. Feeling relaxed. There are many moments in life where we feel stressed or anxious. That moment when you feel relaxed is one you should cherish and have gratitude for.
60. Faith. It’s an inspiring force in our lives, for those of us who are faith minded. If you are, have gratitude for faith’s influence and inspiration in your life.
61. Spiritual community. Connecting with a group of people who believe the same things as you can be comforting and make you happy. Be thankful for when you enjoy these times with your faith group.
62. Spiritual growth. Living a life of faith is a journey. Be glad for how far you’ve grown in your spirituality.
63. Prayer. I personally find prayer to be comforting, even if I’m not always sure it makes a difference in my life. It’s a nice feeling to believe you can ask for good things and good things may eventually happen. You can have gratitude for being able to pray.
64. Religious text. The words of a religious text can also be comforting. We can be thankful whenever we read something that comforts and inspires us in these difficult times.
65. Technology. We’re more able to connect with people and get information than ever before. If you have worked internet and a device that easily accesses it for you, you can be very grateful for these things.
66. Heating and cooling. The weather can be very harsh in some places in the world. Some live without access to heating and cooling to make their home comfortable. If you have that access, add that to your list.
67. Your own room. Lots of people don’t have the luxury of sleeping and being in their own room. Be glad if you have an area where you can be alone and completely yourself.
68. Shower. That moment that warms water hits your skin, have gratitude for the comfort of a working shower.
69. Clean floors. You can clean your floors and be happy to be able to comfortably walk barefoot in your home.
70. Happy moments. Even if the happy moments are few and far between, have thankfulness for when they do come. Cherish the happy moments.
71. Sadness. A study on crying shows that it can make us feel good and reduce the pain we feel. Hopefully, you won’t be sad for long, but you can appreciate your tears help improve your well-being.
72. Mistakes. No one wants to make mistakes in life, but they’re one of the few ways we learn lessons in life. Be glad that your mistakes help you to grow into the better person you’re becoming each day.
73. Accomplishments. There are things you’ve done in life that you’re proud of. You can have thankfulness for those moments you achieved something great.
74. Hobbies. Everybody has something in life they enjoy doing. You can do those activities you enjoy and be thankful you get to enjoy them.
75. Favorite movies and TV shows. I like looking back at old TV shows or movies I really liked all the time. I’m grateful for the good feelings they still give me when I watch them again.
76. Thunderstorm at night. Sometimes thunderstorms can help us peacefully fall asleep at night. If it helps you, add this to your list.
77. Peaceful neighborhood. Living in a peaceful neighborhood where you feel safe is a top thing to express gratefulness for.
78. Social media. While social media rightly gets criticized for the harm it can cause to our mental health, we can be appreciative of the good it gives us in staying connected with people that aren’t near us.
79. Car. It’s an amazing feeling to be able to get on the road and go wherever you want. Be glad if you have the luxury of doing that.
80. Instrument. I haven’t played my guitar in a long time, but I’m thankful for still being able to do that. Perhaps you can grab that instrument you haven’t touched in a while and have gratitude for still being able to play it.
81. Books. While I’m not much of a book reader, I know many people are. Be happy for the books that you can enjoy reading right now.
82. Shoes. We can be thankful to have shoes that protect our feet from the dirt, grass, and rocks when we walk outside.
83. Pest-free home. Believe it or not, some people live in apartments with rats, roaches, and large spiders. If you don’t, that can be added to your list.
84. Things that are still the same. We so often get frustrated with everything that goes wrong, we forget how much continues to go right for us every single day. The bus still shows up to take us to work, our phones and computers still work, etc. Think of the good things that keep working the same every day and add them to your daily thankful list.
85. Things that change. Even when things change in life, we can be glad for that too. Changes can bring about new experiences and new opportunities that can potentially make our lives better.
86. Heartbreak. While heartbreak is never pleasant, we can appreciate it’s making us stronger than we were before.
87. Chairs. We really don’t think about how much of an inconvenience it can be to not have chairs in our home. We can be glad that we don’t have to sit on the floors.
88. Tables. Similarly, with chairs, not having tables can be an inconvenience as well. Be thankful you have something to set things on when you need to.
89. Plates. We can be thankful we don’t have to hold all our food in our hands.
90. Utensils. We can be thankful we don’t have to eat all our food with our hands.
91. Naps. Appreciate the naps that you get to enjoy in the middle of the day.
92. Sleeping in. There are many people that must wake up early for their specific jobs. I’m grateful that I don’t for mine, and you can be as well if that’s true for you.
93. Deep conversation. One of the things I enjoy most about talking to someone is having a deep conversation. Those long thought-provoking dialogues are something we can continually be glad for in 2020.
94. You had breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Unfortunately, some people can only have one meal a day. We can all be glad if we’re lucky enough to get to enjoy three or more a day.
95. Making progress. Even if the progress you’re making is small, you can appreciate it getting you closer to where you want to be in life.
96. Indoor plumbing. In some places, people must go outside to use the bathroom. Being able to use the bathroom in the comfort of our home is another luxury we can be appreciative of.
97. The past. We can be glad for our past helping us to become the best of ourselves that we are today.
98. Weekends. After a long week, if you don’t have to work on the weekends, you can be thankful for the rest you get to have.
99. Mondays. A lot of people tend to not like the start of the work week. Nonetheless, Mondays are something we can be thankful for because it’s another chance to put in work for the future we want someday.
100. Alarms. I used to be able to wake up early easily. I’m grateful that we have alarms that help us wake up at the time we need to.
101.Freedom. Finally, we can be glad to have freedom. While some of us might have it more than others, just to be able to make some of your own choices is something that should give us gratitude.
What should I put on my list? You should put whatever makes you feel genuinely thankful. We all have unique things that we can express appreciation for that are specific to our life. Think about what those things are for you and put that on your list.
What are examples of gratitude? Examples of gratitude include being grateful for your family, your friends, your possessions, and the life that you have. You can look around you to point out the people and things you have in your life to be glad for.
What are 3 things you are thankful for? Now that you’ve seen this list of things you can express thankfulness for, think of three things you’re happy to have right now. As I write this, I’m happy to have my bed, my laptop, and being able to write these articles.
How do you express sincere gratitude? If you want to express sincere gratitude to someone, tell them exactly how you feel about what they’ve done for you in life. It’s as simple as that.
Why you should be glad for your life? Gratitude helps to make us feel good. Countless studies have shown that. Being grateful for your life can help keep your mood boosted. You don’t have to be happy about everything in your life, but you can always find one thing to be glad for.
Strength and courage,
Wade
A mentor of mine said to me “agents aim for nothing and hit it with amazing accuracy!” 2024 is wrapping up and what did you aim for? What did you hit? It is the perfect time of year to aim for something in 2024 and hit it with amazing success!
So, when 2024 begins to wind down you should not wait until the very end to start planning for 2025 in your real estate business. This means having a crystal-clear understanding of the successes and challenges of your current year, how it impacts your upcoming year, and developing a vision of what you want to accomplish, and how. Many agents aim for nothing every year and most hit it with amazing accuracy!! I believe you should always start working on your next year strategy months in advance of the new year.
This awards you enough time to make an impact on your final quarter and lay the groundwork for making sure your next fiscal year starts off on a solid footing. For agents who want to achieve greatness, push the envelope, and grow their business through market share, market penetration, paying down debt, increasing sales, profits, and cash flow, I urge you to get going now!
The way I see things is, if your business isn’t growing, pushing the envelope, thriving, and maximizing profit, then all you’re really doing is suffering a slow death. Believe me, your competition is fighting the fight every day, and they didn’t wake up in the morning and say “Gosh, golly, I hope I stay even in 2024.” They want to eat your lunch, take your business, absorb your market share, and steal your customers away. Some people might ask me if they should start planning by looking at their competition, and I say NO. Why focus on the competition, instead of focusing on yourself? When it comes to my business, I don’t care what others do. I care about what I do.
Recognize your competition for what and who they are, and then put your best foot forward by pushing the envelope in your business. You should approach the new year as if you are going to battle, and for that you should develop a strategic plan. Business Plan – a written document that describes in detail how a business, usually a new one, is going to achieve its goals. A business plan lays out a written plan from a marketing, financial and operational viewpoint.
FACT: LESS THAN 3% OF REAL ESTATE AGENTS HAVE A BUSINESS PLAN.
FACT: ESTIMATED 3% OF REAL ESTATE AGENTS IN NORTH AMERICA DO 97% OF THE BUSINESS
“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” Writing a business plan may seem a daunting task as there are so many moving parts and concepts to address. Take it one step at a time and be sure to schedule regular review (quarterly, semi-annually, or annually) of your plan to be sure you are on track to meet your goals. It is that time of year again when we begin to build our plan for 2020 so let’s look at the key areas of the agent’s solid business plan.
Step 1) “Success and history always leaves us clues.” I began by looking back to identify the clues that have been left for us and the business. I would look at the real estate market first and search for the following clues.
Imagine the targeted and strategic plan you would be able to build for you and your real estate business with this kind of information? Now you are not just winging it. You really know where and what to focus on.
Step 2) Looking At The Present State of Your Own Real Estate Business
What if you took the time to really track and measure and reflect on your business at a deeper level and see your strengths, weaknesses and opportunities of yourself and your own business?
Step 3) Activity Plans – Take the time to lay out your activity plan calendar a year in advance.
Focus on the activities you know you are good at, and you see a return on your invested time and money. I am guessing for most agents it would be your sphere of influence, referrals and face to face or voice to voice activities. Set up a schedule for a month or two in advance of your activities for generating business. What is the activity? When? How? To Whom? Track and measure each of these scheduled activities to help identify the best of the best.
Step 4) Budgeting – Profit is the goal in business.
Knowing what your personal life and your business world cost you monthly is so important. Expense management is just as important as your income and earnings. Have a clear picture of your expenses and measure all of them for their return on investment or if they can be reduced in any way.
I understand this may be terrifying for most of us to see what we are spending personally and professionally but it is the foundation of your business plan to know what your personal and professional lives cost and then be able to set a financial target that is enough to cover them both and leave you some profit! So many of us stay away from this and run in a deficit and that is not good practice for any of us.
Step 5) Goals – If your “Why” is big enough the “how” will take care of itself.
What is your purpose? Vision? Values? Mission Statement? Taking the time to know what it is you want and why you want it is a game changer for us all. Nothing gives me more joy than impacting and improving people’s lives personally and professionally every day. I have realized that the driving compelling force in my life is serving others and having the means to create memorable experiences with the people I care about most and nothing else has given me more joy than these amazing WHY’s in my own life.
In my own real estate business, taking the time over the last 30 years to create a business plan has been so incredibly beneficial for me and I know it will for you as well. In today’s post I have given you a brief business plan overview. To help you get going with your own plan I put together a Step-by-Step Real Estate Business Plan Workbook you can download for free below.
Strength and Courage,
Wade
Your real estate skills determine your success, but they could also be your downfall if left undeveloped. In a competitive market, there’s little room for skill development while managing your business, leading to anxiety and reluctance to try new things. This mindset can perpetuate the belief that certain tasks will always be difficult.
Let me clarify this: not everything should be difficult or uncomfortable if you have the know-how and confidence to handle it effectively. Let’s talk about three crucial real estate skills that are holding agents back at various career stages.
In this blog, we’ll delve into these real estate skills for a new real estate agent, novice, or seasoned agent. Let’s start off with what exactly I’m talking about when I say “skills.”
What Are the Elements of Skills in Real Estate?
I know… You already know what skills are. But when have you taken the time to break down what they really mean? Doing this can show you how to develop them. To make it very simple, a skill is the combination of two things: Your knowledge of how to perform a task in the most effective way possible.
Your confidence and ability to perform the task in your chosen way on command.
Understanding the essence of skills is vital for your development. Simply put, a skill is the combination of knowledge on performing a task effectively and the confidence and ability to execute it. While knowledge can be acquired through trial and error or guidance from experienced individuals, confidence and ability improve through practice.
But I can’t say this enough… DON’T PRACTICE ON YOUR CLIENTS! You only have one reputation, and every interaction affects it. Professional training programs are recommended for the simultaneous development of knowledge and skills. Remember, skills aren’t something you’re naturally good at; they require refinement and can deteriorate from learning bad habits.
What Skills Are Needed for Real Estate? Skills needed in real estate include effective communication, negotiation, marketing, time management, adaptability, problem-solving, local market knowledge, technology proficiency, networking, and integrity. Let’s take this one step further and talk about the fundamentals of these skills for real estate agents.
The Foundations – Nothing will slow down your progress like learning the foundations incorrectly – or in many cases not learning them at all. Learning the foundations correctly, or lack thereof, significantly impacts your progress in real estate.
When you were getting your license, how much did they teach you about running a business, doing effective real estate marketing, becoming competent at sales, and managing your time? I’m willing to bet, pretty much nothing.
Traditional real estate education often neglects crucial aspects like business management, effective marketing, sales competence, and time management. In today’s competitive market, there’s little room for new agents to make mistakes in real estate.
Now, I know it seems like cheating to call all these foundations one skill because they encompass just so much, but a large part of this has to do with when these skills are learned and how they’re integrated together into a routine and a mindset. Here are just a few of the elements of your foundational skills:
But the main reason I count them all together is because of the solution I’m about to announce which covers all of these and more… Stick around for it!
Phone Prospecting. – While the foundations come in first place because you absolutely can’t start making decent money until you have some grasp on them, phone prospecting is the hands-down No. 1 most common issue among all agents.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve found some other lead gen channel that’s working – if there’s a fear of the phone and you’re not making your calls then you’re not reaching your potential. The obvious culprit here is a crisis of confidence. It can be awkward to call strangers or people you barely know. It’s uncomfortable to ask for an appointment, and it can be a real confidence killer to be hung up on or to sense someone’s annoyance.
But it’s only awkward/uncomfortable/draining if you haven’t developed the skills for it. And please keep in mind that developing these skills is a part of your job. You might not like it, but it’s part of the career path you’ve chosen. Remember here that confidence comes from experience, and still, it’s only one-half of what forms a skill.
You need the knowledge of exactly what you’re going to say and the training to anticipate what they might say next. This is what will allow you to steer the conversation in the way you want it to go. Once you have that, confidence will come naturally, and phone calls will become predictable commission.
Leverage – The longer you’re in this business, the more you’re going to want to start delegating tasks to free you up to focus on the most important – and rewarding – aspects of the role. And that means building a team around you.
Think about it… wouldn’t it be lovely if you could work less and make exponentially more money? How about going on vacation while your business continues to run smoothly without you? These are just a few of the incredible benefits of having the right team. But the right team isn’t easy to build, especially when you first get started.
After years of mastering the fundamentals of real estate skills, becoming fearless on the phones, and raising their annual commissions, many experienced agents believe that they know it all just to find themselves completely lost again when it becomes necessary for them to expand. Recruiting is a different ballgame than any other aspect of the business.
On the one hand, you want to take the time to find the perfect people for every position and train them properly so that they can fulfill their roles. On the other hand, you don’t want your business to completely collapse while you take the time to do this and go completely bankrupt on paying people you can no longer afford. It seems like a Catch-22, right? It doesn’t have to be if you know how to:
Let’s go back to what I said at the beginning… Pride and ignorance are the opposite of confidence, and they can prevent us from recognizing where we really stand. It’s embarrassing to admit to ourselves that we didn’t master all the fundamentals when we first started, so sometimes we’d rather blame the market than admit to our own lack of skills.
It’s easier to say that we don’t have the time and energy to make our calls than to admit that it’s a lack of confidence holding us back. And it’s easy to say that you’ve become successful on your own, so you don’t need help in becoming a leader. These are all excuses that are holding you back. So, I challenge you to be honest with yourself.
Strength and Courage,
Wade
So, what does that mean? The things top agents never do again.
From my observations of successful agents, they tend to have moments in life and in business, that once they have them, they never go back to the old way of doing things. When that happens, they are never the same.
In short, they just “get it”!
Years ago, a bad business decision of mine led to an interesting situation. I had learned a valuable lesson the hard way and assured myself this was a good thing once I learned that lesson, I would never go back.
Trust me you never do it again. So, what are the key moments successful agents go through that forever change how they do things, which propel them to succeed in business, relationships, and life?
I began to look at these moments and here is what I found.
Remember everyone, including myself, make mistakes… even the most successful people out there. But what achievers do better than others is recognize the patterns that are causing those mistakes and never repeat them again. In short, they learn from pain—their own and the pain of others.
A good thing to remember is this: Pain is unavoidable, but repeating the same pain twice, when we could choose to learn and do something different, is certainly avoidable.
I like to say, “We don’t need new ways to fail… the old ones are working just fine!” Our task, in business and in life, is to observe what they are, and never go back to doing them again.
Strength and courage,
Wade
The Oxford Dictionary defines a vacation as “an extended period of recreation.” It defines recreation as “activity done for enjoyment when one is not working.” So, strictly speaking, you can’t call it a vacation if you’re doing work.
Summer 2024 is here, my favorite season of the year. It seems like the first half of the year just flew by us so fast! Are you like me and tired of never really taking a good break or more importantly, is your family and friends tired of going on vacation with you because you’re working remotely?
Now be honest, are you taking a vacation this summer and planning to sit on your phone or tablet, texting or emailing while the rest of your family sit by the pool and enjoy the waves crashing on the beach while you were working remotely the whole time? Is that what a vacation for real estate agents is supposed to look like?
If you work remotely, your personal life and work life become intertwined to the point there seems to be no separation at all. Is there something very wrong with our mindset and business set up that can’t allow us to vacation 3 or 4 weeks a year and not have to work remotely?
What would a vacation be like with no mobile devices, no internet connection and cell phone reception completely unplugged and off the real estate grid?
What about to be in the moment and present with the most important people in your life? I need you to believe this is possible and here are some strategies that can make this type of vacation as a real estate agent a reality!!
Let’s break it down and commit to this (including myself).
What happens every time before you are about to go on vacation? We get busy!
What if you planned every 6 weeks to unplug and get away. We could assume that we will get busy every 6 weeks during our year!
If you take a 4-7 day break you still come back and you are still busy, I guarantee it, but refreshed and recharged to crush it. If it is meant to be then it is up to me!
Choose to be on vacation and enjoy it, especially when you are spending your hard-earned money to create those moments, experiences, and memories with the most important people in your life that will last a lifetime. Be present in the moment and really relax and enjoy your time away and reload and re-energize to be able to come back and do amazing things in your business.
Strength and courage,
Wade
Can you believe the first half of the year has come and gone? Right now, is a great time to stop and take time to review the progress you have made during the first half of 2024 in your real estate business. Pull out and review your original 2024 business plan, the key strategic initiatives, and tactical sales goals that you set for yourself as a REALTOR.
Once you set your plan in motion back in January, did you review your weekly sales and listings (prospecting), lead generation (rain making) and marketing (presence) as well as your monthly strategic goals? Congratulations if you have! If not, I highly recommend you take time now at the beginning of this month to review and reflect your progress from the first half or the year.
To make this easier, here is a free mid-year real estate Review and Reflection Assessment tool you can implement to finish the second half of 2024 strong.
Your Name: ______________
Semi-Annual Review Year _________________
In this first segment of your annual review, we will look back at your production in the first six months of the year. This will lay the groundwork for reflection and ultimately our planning for the remainder of the year.
Let’s start with the basic issue first, your real estate business income:
Now we will review your prospecting efforts through June 30.
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Now tell us about your personal marketing efforts.
Finally, let’s look at how you spent your time through June 30
Defining your progress in the categories above will help us dig deeper into the reasons for your success or the challenges you faced
List 5 items that met or exceeded your expectations in through June 30
List 5 items that did not meet your expectations through June 30
What were your three most productive activities through June 30?
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What were your three most unproductive activities through June 30?
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Write a summary in your own words to recap what the first half of 2024 looked like and what is going to happen the second half.
Once you download it you can fill it in now and then again in 6 month increments to compare your progress as time goes on.
Let us know if you have any questions…
CLICK HERE FOR FREE ASSESSMENT TOOL
I trust this tool gives you some insight and some clarity to really see where you have been, where you are at today and where you want to be by the end of 2024.
Strength and Courage,
Wade
When we talk about your health and the enjoyment of your life weighed against the stress required to run your own business, what we’re really talking about is eustress vs. distress.
They’re two different forms of stress, and stress is what today’s blog is all about. Because particularly in a market like this one, stress is a major issue for real estate agents. But here’s the main thing you need to take away from this blog: as a real estate agent (or a human being in general), stress is unavoidable, but the type of stress you feel is what makes all the difference.
Thanks, Wade, but that doesn’t really explain what eustress is… Don’t worry! Because we’re going to explore what it is, why it’s important, the negative effects of its counterpart, and what you can do to shift distress into eustress. But first, let’s start by establishing the full scope of what we’re dealing with here…
What is a Stressor?
At the most basic level, a stressor is something that causes a state of strain or tension. But you knew that right? As a real estate agent, you probably have a million different stressors in your life right now. So why is this so important? Because of what strain and tension mean when comparing distress and eustress.
Do you realize how powerful strain and tension are? They’re what you’re putting your body through when you exercise, making yourself happier, healthier, and stronger. But they’re also what happens to your body when you’re in a car accident or come down with a virus. The difference is the level and the type of stress.
It’s important to recognize that stress isn’t a one-size-fits-all thing. It’s a spectrum. You need stress to get things done and live a happy, purposeful life – you just need the right type and the right amount, or everything goes wrong.
What is Distress?
Distress is a destructive version of stress that’s become unmanageable and frankly unproductive. All the way on the right side of the spectrum you have distress – an emotion that was once reserved for helping us escape predators in the wild but has now worked its way into just about every situation in our lives.
Our bodies and minds are not meant to feel this kind of distress constantly. Do any of these sound like you?
If you said yes to one or more, you’re likely living in a state of distress. If left unchecked, this could have serious consequences down the road and even lower your life expectancy. But if stress is a spectrum, there must be a better option…
What is eustress?
Simply put, eustress is the positive version of stress that motivates you and fills you with energy instead of tearing you apart.
Eustress doesn’t have any negative health consequences. In fact, it fills you with more energy and often encourages behaviors that make you live longer.
People who live in a constant state of eustress almost always exercise more and even eat better – because they’re MOTIVATED to do so!
It forces you to step out of your comfort zone in an exciting way and become the best version of yourself. It lifts you up instead of crushing you, and gives you dreams of a great future instead of nightmares of potential failure. People don’t succeed without stress, but what separates high achievers from everyone else is that they’ve found a way to tap into eustress to eliminate their anxiety and keep pushing forward.
So, if it’s always a battle of eustress vs. distress, how can you tap into eustress more often? I have a few ways…
Tapping into Eustress…
Tip 1: Learn Something New. Sounds ridiculous to add that on top of everything else, right? Now is the perfect time, because the first step of moving from distress to eustress is to keep your mind in a state of receptive learning.
In Zen Buddhism, they call this “Beginner’s Mind.” But I’m not saying you need to learn a language… Learning something new related to your business is even better. And lucky for you, this website is absolutely PACKED full of resources for that… What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but didn’t know where to start? Hosting better Open Houses? Geo farming? Direct mail? Click those links to get free guides that show you how top agents are making big money using these lead gen systems.
Tip 2: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone. But Wade, if I’m already distressed, wouldn’t going farther out of my comfort zone just make it worse? It depends on what you’re going out of your comfort zone for… If it’s for chasing the same old thing without thinking it through then yes, it might. But if it’s to gain inspiration, support, and experience, then that’s the fast track to eustress.
Tip 3: Take Your MEDSS. If you follow my content, you’ve probably heard this one before, but it needs to be repeated over and repeatedly. It all comes down to the fundamentals – your MEDSS:
At its core, stress is a result of either dopamine or cortisol. Eustress is triggered by mostly dopamine and a little cortisol. Distress is the symptom of too much cortisol and not enough dopamine.
A lot of people think that dopamine is a “feel-good” neurochemical, but that’s not true. Dopamine is about motivation because it’s the reward your brain gives you for doing something good. But there’s a difference between good dopamine and bad dopamine.
Good dopamine comes from completing a task and producing creative solutions. Bad dopamine comes from junk food, TV, and dangerous prescriptions.
Incorporating meditation, exercise, a healthy diet, and at least eight hours of sleep into your schedule is the most proven way to reduce cortisol in the brain and heal your dopaminergic system. Robert Butler of the National Institute on Aging has said: “If exercise could be packaged in a pill, it would be the single most widely prescribed and beneficial medicine in the nation.”
Rutgers University conducted a study that found that people who frequently meditated experienced a 50% reduction in cortisol levels. So, if you’re looking to transmute your distress into eustress, you need to take the time to take your MEDSS.
Eustress vs. Distress: It’s a Choice. Just like anything else in life, the type of stress you feel and its effects on your health are the results of your behaviors. What you do is often what you get.
If you have anxiety but you’re not seeking help, meditating, or expanding your mind, then I don’t know what to do for you.
Normally on lists like this, I’d tell you to choose one of the above and run with it, but in this case, I don’t think just one is enough. You need all three – this perfect trifecta – to free yourself from distress and light the fire in your belly that propels you forward (and if you need help, you know where to find me).
Strength and Courage,
Wade
Why are real estate scripts so important? Real estate scripts are misunderstood. They aren’t about making you sound like a cookie-cutter robot or not allowing you to be yourself. It’s exactly the opposite. They’re about giving you a framework for communication so that you can break the ice and get your message across clearly.
Scripts give you the freedom to be yourself without fumbling for what to say next. If you came here looking for some effective Tom Ferry scripts, you’ll get them. But this blog is also about how to use real estate agent scripts more effectively. Once you have a great script and know how to use it, that’s where your greatness begins to shine.
What are real estate scripts? Real estate scripts are pre-planned, practiced conversations or text communication with specific phrasing meant to gain a reaction or form a connection with a buyer or seller. Emails and texts are also scripts.
There is an art to creating good realtor scripts and an art to modifying them. Bad scripts either lock you into a corner or give you too much freedom in the wrong areas so that the conversation flows in unnatural ways.
Here’s a bad script:
“Hey Dave, it’s Wade Webb ABC Realty. How are you doing today?”
“That’s good to hear. Have you thought about buying or selling real estate recently?”
“Well in that case, do you know anyone who may be interested?”
How do you use real estate scripts?
A good real estate script on the other hand makes it easy to pick up the phone. Good scripts usually work in two different ways simultaneously: As a direct script you can read off. Important for hooks and value points. As a template that can be adjusted as the conversation flows.
Here’s the framework of a great listing script.
Make sure your script checks off these boxes:
Now, let’s dive into some tips on how to make the most out of your scripts.
Use Assumptive Language – Assumptive language is about making the person you’re talking to feel as if they’ve already taken the next step, such as “When we get together” or “After we sell your home for top dollar.” It paints a picture in their mind.
Keep it Simple Over Text – When it comes to email or text messages, you got to grab them fast. Here’s an awesome appointment setting script that does just that. Go to Zillow and take a screenshot of a past client’s home with the price included in it.
Next, put the picture in the body of an email (not as an attachment) that says: “Zillow says your home is worth $______. Do you agree with that price? I have my opinion. What do you think?” Simple, clean, and EXTREMELY effective.
Prepare for Objections – The entire point of having a script is to be prepared and always know what to say next. But the issue is, conversations aren’t a one-way street. Objection handlers are scripts in themselves. You can find objection handler scripts of their own or you can create your own to match any script you may be using. If you want to see objections handled masterfully, there’s no one better than Mr. Exactly What To Say himself, Phil Jones. Check out where he shows you how to handle objections. As you’ll see, it often comes down to leading the conversation through progressive questions.
Practice and Roleplay – The only way your scripts are going to sound natural and make your life easier is if they become second nature. That will only happen through practice and roleplay.
Top agents dedicate themselves to roleplaying and helping each other fine-tune their scripts through practice, feedback, and testing objections. Hundreds of Tom Ferry scripts are available to members through our online learning platform. Be sure to have scripts prepared for all these occasions:
Stick to the Truth
Brian Boero, the co-founder of 1000Watt, one of the leaders in real estate data and brand building, has said that truth is always the best script. I fully believe in that. Realtor scripts are not meant to make embellishments sound like the truth.
Instead, they should make it easier to confront hard truths head-on without fear. Get the Prospecting Training You Need. If there’s one thing that can give you confidence in making your calls, having meaningful conversations, setting appointments, and closing deals, it’s training.
Strength & Courage,
Wade
Now this isn’t about getting new business. It is not a prospecting script, but it may be the most important phone duty that anyone in your office does–asking for price reductions on listings.
Asking for price reductions can make or break a top real estate agent’s business. Not only will price reductions quicken the sale, and therefore, minimize overhead in a real estate agent’s business, but it will also prove to everyone your marketing systems work.
Remember, price is 90% of any marketing plan and the faster you achieve market value, the faster everybody’s needs are met.
The challenge with price reductions is not solved with a phone script, but a series of planned events. This system you are holding shows you the right questions to ask prior to a listing presentation so you can learn their true motivation and then find ways to meet their goals.
When the desire is to meet someone’s goals, they’re much more likely to listen to the plan that gets them there. As we all know, the correct price is the fastest road to the achievement of most goals that have to do with a sale.
Once the right questions are asked, the next step is an outstanding presentation with the correct verbiage during the CMA. We’ve all experienced the seller that no matter how much information is given them, including pre-listing sales packages that include pricing technologies and the right scientific research showing the exact value of their home–they still want more!
What are we to do? What to do while battling another agent’s high evaluation or how to obtain pre-agreed listing reductions during the term of the listing.
All I can do at this juncture is to assume the right questions were asked prior to and at the listing presentation, and they received information on how to price their property correctly. At the listing presentation this information was gone over, and the scientific information was discussed.
If after all of this has been done and the price is still too high your options are to not take the listing or to receive pre-agreed reductions based upon the success of marketing.
All this leads me to believe, if everything that should be done has been done, and you still have an overpriced listing, you (1) knew it was overpriced and took it anyway or (2) made a mistake based upon the fact you liked the property more than anyone else did.
There’s also a possible third problem and that is the seller was a better salesperson than you and sold you on the high price. All this is leading us to one conclusion, if you have been a victim of any of the previously mentioned three problems, you’re now going to have to consistently ask for price reductions, which may be the most embarrassing aspect of this business.
How do you ask for price reductions when you told the seller you could market the home at the agreed upon price? Sometimes, their responses are furious, such as, “Well anybody can sell this house at that price,” “The other agent said that they could get more,” “I can’t buy my new home if I get that price,” or “Do you expect me to lose money?”
All these questions ignore the main subject, and that is, market value is market value and none of the above questions have anything to do with or affect market value.
The following lead-ins can be used to ask for a price reduction, but it is very important you use new subjects as often as possible, so not to sound monotonous!
Remember, an agent who asks for price reductions soon after the listing presentation will have a weary seller, so therefore, mix your price reductions with new and exciting marketing concepts. Concepts such as a page promoted on your website from your lender showing five ways, which the home can be financed.
Adding a special home of the day button to your site or sending your evaluation surveys to all the agents who have seen the home– I’ve got a million of them. Remember, the seller likes the real estate agent who is ingenious in their marketing methods and, the seller will then listen more intently to the following reasons for a price reduction.
I hope you can use any one or all these reasons to obtain a price reduction or improvement in terms or value. The phone is the most effective way to do this. The use of your assistant calling for price reductions or doing it by mail has proven to be ineffective. There are times when the real estate agent must pick up the phone, and the price reduction is one of them.
Strength and courage,
Wade